Tag: family
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Introducing Callie
After my mom died, we adopted her kitty, Callie. I had not wanted to promise my mother we would adopt her, because I feared how our dogs and a cat would get along, but after she died I decided to do it. Callie is a Maine coon. Very affectionate and gentle! So far, she is…
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Haiku of a bereaved son at the end of shiva
Mirrors uncovered I see the pain in my face Yet I see her too
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Saying my mom died actually helps
Calling Social Security and my mom’s bank is actually therapeutic, in that I get to make it real that my mom died, which just feels so unreal.
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Things I never thought I’d say about death
I’ve said a couple of things about death this week I never thought I’d hear come out of my mouth. The day before my mom died alone in her apartment (sad news, I know), I tried talking her into signing a DNR so she could go into hospice. She said she wanted them to do…